The Top Reasons Couples Don’t Hire a Wedding Videographer—and Why You Should

You’ve hired an amazing wedding photographer to capture your day. Now you’re wondering, should you hire a wedding videographer too? It’s a tough question, but one worth exploring together.

What’s Holding You Back from Saying “Yes” to a Wedding Film?

Let’s get straight to it—what’s the real issue?

• Maybe your fiancé isn’t on board.
• Or maybe your parents, who are graciously paying for the wedding, feel like the spending is getting out of hand.
• Or, you’re just being the amazing, considerate person you are, trying to be respectful of everyone’s wallet.

And of course, you’ve already hired a photographer. So, why add a videographer to the mix?

You’re Wondering If a Wedding Film is Worth It

Here’s the thing: You’re probably thinking, “Will we really watch this video more than a couple of times a year?” It’s a valid question, and it often leads to rationalizing the expense of a top-tier photographer because those photos will be displayed around your house, serving as practical, beautiful decor.

But is that really the whole story?

The Value of the Special and Rare

Think about it: Some things are more special precisely because they’re not part of our everyday routine. We don’t celebrate holidays every day, and that’s what makes them meaningful. You wouldn’t want to eat birthday cake every day—it would lose its magic. The same goes for those Sunday morning donuts you love (trust me, you’d get sick of them if you had them daily—just ask Sean, who hated donuts after working at Dunkin’).

So, if you’re worried that you won’t watch your wedding video often enough to justify the cost, consider this: When you do watch it, it will be special, cherished, and something you look forward to. And unlike those everyday things you stop noticing, your wedding film will reveal new details each time you watch it.

You Think Wedding Videography Will Be Overwhelming

All the cameras, all the people, all the pressure—do you really need one more vendor in your face all day? I totally get it.

But here’s the reality: A good videographer knows how to blend in. The last thing they want is to disrupt your day or make you uncomfortable. They’re pros at capturing the moments without intruding on them. Ask the right questions when you’re inquiring, and you’ll find someone who understands that your experience is just as important as the final film.

Can I Hire a College Student, Friend, or Cheap Videographer Instead?

So, you’ve decided you want a video, but the cost is daunting. Could you just have a friend or a college student do it? Sure, you can—but I wouldn’t recommend it.

Here’s why: Professionals know where to be and when, without getting in the way of your photographer. They understand the flow of a wedding day and can anticipate moments before they happen. A friend or amateur might mean well, but they don’t have the experience to navigate the day seamlessly. The last thing you want is to be disappointed with the final product—or worse, find out they missed something important.

What Will You Miss Out On by Not Hiring a Wedding Videographer?

Not hiring a wedding videographer is the single biggest regret we hear from newlyweds. And yet, it happens all the time.

After the wedding, most couples wish they had a video of their day because they don’t remember much of it. Weddings are intense—there’s so much happening, so many emotions, and often a little alcohol, too. The day is a blur. That’s why a video is so valuable. It’s not just about seeing the moments you missed—it’s about experiencing your wedding in a whole new way, whenever you want.

If you’re still wondering whether a wedding videographer is necessary, check out our detailed guide here.

The Value of a Wedding Video Grows with Time

Life changes for everyone. And as time goes on, your wedding video becomes more valuable, not just for you, but for your loved ones, too. It’s a way to preserve your memories and share them with future generations. And it’s not just about the big moments, but the small ones, too—the way your dad danced with you, the sound of your spouse’s voice, the laughter during toasts.

So, Should You Hire a Wedding Videographer?

Yes! If you can afford a professional videographer, do it. Allocate as much of your budget as you can. This isn’t about spending more than you can afford—it’s about making a wise investment in something you’ll cherish forever.

And if you’re wondering why videography costs as much as photography (or more), remember: We use the same equipment, but we have more of it. We’re not just capturing images; we’re capturing sound, movement, and emotion. We’re telling a story, and that takes time, skill, and a lot of hard work.

Your Wedding Film is Memory Insurance

This is the day you’ve been planning for years, maybe even dreaming about your whole life. Don’t you want to relive it in as much detail as possible? Photography can’t capture the dance moves, the laughter, the tears—not like video can. A great videographer will tell the story of your love, creating a film that’s compelling enough to become your favorite movie of all time.

Conclusion: Yes, You Should Hire a Videographer

If you’re ready to talk about how we can capture your wedding day, check our availability. We’re local to Cape Cod and love traveling to beautiful locations throughout the East Coast.